Forget the snide comments -- sorry, Happy, but I had to use you as an example -- forget her ultra-privileged background, forget the kikayness, forget the fact that we don't have all the information yet. The salient fact, at least to me, is this: that Kris Aquino walked away from an abusive relationship.
Here's the transcript from the infamous interview with Korina Sanchez, as well as her own comments on her blog.
As she said in her interview:
Ako handa akong panagutan ang mga pangyayari. Ako handang tumayo, handa akong humarap, handa akong sabihin ang katotohanan kahit na mawala na sa akin ang lahat. You keep saying you are prepared to lose everything Joey, but you don’t have the balls to say the truth.Posted by the wily filipino at September 25, 2003 11:14 AM
Oh, but you did!
I wasn't being snide, I was being sensationalist!
My remarks, be them cynical, are held aloft (and is quickly bottomed out) by the media circus that surrounds the breakup. News like this is the stuff that fills her shows, like The Buzz. She herself knows how to work this system And, bottomfeeders like me blog about this stuff all the time.
I keep thinking Patty Hearst, but I don't know how to work that in here. Maybe later.
But right now, this is what's on the hopper: So, after years of annoying us on national television, years of scandal of her own doing, seasons of gossip-mongering, after wrecking Alma's and Lorna T's family, should I find sympathy for her? Will her apologies soften my heart? Will her begging for forgiveness on national television make me shed tears?
Sure, my sympathies readily go to millions of battered wives and girlfriends silenced by fear. Some, like Kris, are strong enough to break the bonds. But exactly what can I do for them sitting here blogging about it under a moral microscope?
So, you'll have to forgive me for not expressing my sympathies. Kris Aquino to me is hard love. I'm sorry this happened to her. But not sorry enough, just like a lot of us out there, to make remarks about it.
Posted by: Happy on September 25, 2003 12:26 PMOkay. We don't have all the facts yet, and I'd certainly feel like a chump if I got suckered into believing any lies, especially since I sound terribly "politically correct" here.
But tears and sympathy aside -- you wrote: "Hey, you asked for the bad karma, girl."
Doesn't sound like your "sympathies readily go to millions of battered wives and girlfriends silenced by fear," does it?
Ah, that I attribute to the expired yoghurt I had, which contributed to my less than affable disposition.
Posted by: Happy on September 26, 2003 12:22 PMaaahhhhh, ahahahah, hawakan mo nga sa tenga? aaahhhhhhh....
Posted by: Dyno on September 26, 2003 03:58 PMWait, wait, is that really her blog????
Posted by: Perfectly Sassy on September 28, 2003 02:02 AMHappy: I wasn't trying to make her a heroine, I was just pointing out the political implications of what she did.
Perfectly Sassy: The question's been posed before, and I'm not sure. I think it's for real -- a parody blog would be more over the top. This one retains the trademark Kris A. outrageousness, but is still sober-sounding enough to maybe be real.
Posted by: the wily filipino on September 28, 2003 10:13 AMNo it's not her but people who work closely with her (or so I'm told). I guess the kolehiyala code mixing is infectious. Kinda like the Erap blog without the kikayness.
Posted by: Markmomukhamo on September 29, 2003 02:03 AMMost of you have probably already received a copy of that "Incredible Kris" essay by Katrina Stuart Santiago -- very well-written, and totally valid, but I still stand by my original comments. We're not talking about sainthood here, just a recognition that her attention-getting, headline-grabbing, media-orchestrated interview may have implications for other women as well.
Posted by: the wily filipino on September 30, 2003 10:17 AMI felt sorry for kris aquino, I really think she is a loser!LOSER!!!Girl,you get what you deserve.You have no right to get jealous cause you are not joey's wife.. just like mariz you are just his sex partner ... hahahahahahaha.what goes around comes around..now,you know how alma feels when joey dumped her for you.The only difference is joey poked gun at you.kawawa ka naman nabugbog na, na STD pa.hahahahaha.Kapal mo girl, walang respeto ang lalaki sa iyo..
Posted by: lorna on February 7, 2004 09:29 AMkris aquino is such a cheap woman, I was disgusted when i heared that she got STD from Joey...She really deserve what happen to her,having an affair with a married and family man..poor joshua,this boy is gonna end up in theraphy because of her loser mom.If i were you kris be a good mom and please respect yourself.Just take your time and wait for the right man..next time baka hindi lang STD or tulo ang makukuha mo AIDS na.OUCH!hahahahahahahaha.
Posted by: christine on February 7, 2004 09:47 AM